Through mutual friends, me and Dallin met almost two years ago in my hometown. We clicked instantly and I knew that we would be good friends. Good friends turned into more just months after meeting. We have been dating for one year now, and that whole year we have been doing long-distance. Dallin is from Moses Lake, Washington which is five hours away from my home. Because of the distance, we typically only see each other once a month. Though it is hard, I am so grateful for the ability Dallin and I have to communicate in other forms. Technology has definitely saved our relationship. It is easy for me to get down about the distance at times, but long-distance isn’t all that bad. In fact, I believe the distance is what makes our relationship so healthy. 

For the stages of life we are both in, I consider a symmetrical relationship being necessary for us. We do have a symmetrical relationship because we both live our own independent lives, and there is plenty of balance between the two of us. The balance is demonstrated in our equal efforts to show our love and support despite the distance. It can be hard not being with each other when one of us is having a rough time. It is also hard not knowing the full intentions behind a simple text. All of these little things can make me worry at times, but Dallin does a great job at doing his part to keep the relationship going. I myself try my hardest to do the same. Sweet texts throughout the day and video calls when we can have been tender mercies for me. I know that a long-distance relationship cannot last without equal effort and balance.